3 Reasons You Can't Find the Right Man

3 Reasons Why You Can’t Find the Right Man

Family, Dating and Relationships
February 28, 2014
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I know…I just told you not to look for a man! But I’d like to tell you a little more about my stance on this.

I actually think the term “finding Mr. Right” is kind of good. No, I do not condone literally looking for him. But I think that phrase represents the heart’s desires of so many women: “Where is the right man? Where is the right man who we can share our life with? Will I EVER get married?!”

So no wonder we think we have to look for him…it looks like he’s not looking for us. But I want to shift your paradigm a bit. Don’t fall back into looking for him or wondering why you can’t find the right man. Instead, focus on how to be a better you so that HE can find YOU. Here are 3 things to consider as to why the right man can’t find you:

1) You’re still tied to the wrong man:

Have you ever heard of the term “soul tie”? If not, a soul tie happens when you have sex with someone or you have a high level of intimacy (romantic in nature) with that person. Staying tied to the wrong man can and will keep you from getting to know a really great guy. If you’re ready to understand exactly what a soul tie is and to break your ungodly soul ties, I have something here you might like:

2) He’s supposed to be looking for you:

I talked about this in a previous article as well. I am an old school young woman. I know it’s 2014 but men know what they’re supposed to do when they like or perhaps even love a woman: call, stop by, take her out, ask questions, buy her thoughtful gifts, listen to her. And they know they’re supposed to do it for as many times as takes to convince YOU that he’s the right one.

3) You have no life:

One ministry that I followed religiously was Finding Morris with James Riley. One of the things he said was that like the scripture “It’s your gift that brings you before great men”, your talents, gifts and abilities will ultimately lead you the man that is right for you. Serving others according to the giftings God had given you gets you out of the house, living life the way God intended, putting you “before great men”.

What are some of the other reasons you feel you can’t find Mr. Right?