Christian Dating: 5 Men You Should Never Date

Christian Dating: 5 Men You Should NEVER Date (If You Want to Get Married)

Christian Dating, Christian Singles, Family, Dating and Relationships
April 26, 2016
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Part of your strategy as a dating, Christian woman is knowing who you do NOT need to date. So in this blog article I want to share 5 types of men you want to avoid like the plague…because if you don’t, you WILL have a hard time rebounding if you get tangled up with one of them. I know because I’ve either made the mistake of doing that or seen OTHER single women get tied up with them.

So here’s to empowering yourself in your dating journey as a dating, single Christian woman. Stay away from:

1. Mr. Psychopath: Merriam-Webster (yes, I pulled the dictionary) defines Psychopathy as “mental disorder especially when marked by egocentric and antisocial activity”. In other words, this man is selfish and can’t have meaningful, healthy relationships. They have no regard for rules, laws…much less your feelings or rights. I could say more, but I won’t. I’m not a psychologist. I just know that psychopaths are not relationship or inner circle material. Just stay away from him.

2. Mr. Time Waster: I’ve had a few of these. Thankfully I got the point before I made this an enduring trend in my life. Stay away from these. They will steal the most valuable asset you have when it comes to dating as a single Christian woman…TIME. And they won’t feel bad about it. Nor can they help you get back on track to start finding men who WON’T waste your time. Because they want a monopoly on your time…just without the commitment.

3. Mr. “It’s you, not me”: This is the man who flips everything back around on you. This is classic of abusers and predators. It’s how they get away with what they get away with…character assassination, making you feel like you’re seeing things and preying on your insecurities. That’s crazy making behavior.

4. Mr. “You’d make a great wife…for SOMEbody”: If a man says this to you, don’t waste anymore time trying to get to know him for the purpose of a relationship. He’s basically told you that he doesn’t see you as HIS wife. And if you’re sleeping with him and he says this to you, close up shop and do what you need to do to move on.

5. Mr. Roaming Eyes: Any man who oggles other women while he’s out with you or looks you over like the last virgin (and you’re modestly dressed) is a man who is likely to be unfaithful. Cheating doesn’t just happen. It starts with entertaining the thought. And chances are…if this man is sizing you or other women up like he’s on the hunt…well, he is.

The next time I’ll talk about who you want to get to know better. But for now, if you’ve struggled because you’ve already wasted valuable time on or more of these types of men, check out my audio series “Find the Love You Truly Desire”.